Why You Feel Sleepy After Eating

Have you ever noticed how sleepy people get after a big meal—especially during the holidays? One moment everyone’s laughing around the table, and the next, half the group has vanished to find a cozy corner for a quick nap. It got me wondering: Why does eating make us so tired? So I did a little digging, and here’s what I found.

Feeling sleepy after eating—often called postprandial somnolence or the classic “food coma”—is a common experience, and it’s caused by a mix of biological and nutritional factors. Here’s what they say is really going on:


1.) Blood Sugar Fluctuations

  • Meals high in refined carbohydrates (like white bread, pasta, or sugary snacks) cause a rapid spike in blood sugar.

  • Your body releases insulin to bring it back down, and that crash can leave you feeling sluggish.


2.) Tryptophan & Serotonin

  • Foods like turkey, milk, eggs, and nuts contain tryptophan, an amino acid that helps produce serotonin, which regulates mood and sleep.

  • A meal rich in protein and carbs can increase serotonin levels, making you feel drowsy.


3.) Melatonin-Rich Foods

  • Some foods naturally contain melatonin, the sleep hormone—like tart cherries, oats, rice, and pistachios.

  • These can subtly signal your body to wind down.


4.) Large Meal Volume

  • Eating a big meal diverts energy to digestion. Your body focuses on breaking down food, which can leave you feeling tired.


5.) Circadian Rhythm

  • Many people experience a natural dip in energy in the early afternoon. Eating during this time can amplify the effect.

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Is Raven the Cat a Muse or Something More

Recently I've been asked about the word "muse" in some of my Halloween books that front Raven the cat as a host or narrator... so I thought I would give some companion information for my readers.                                                                                                                  Let's talk about the word "muse" first: “muse” is one of those deliciously layered words that feels like it belongs in my world of whispers and shimmer trails.

Here’s how it unfolds:

  • ✨ In mythology: A Muse (capital M) is one of the nine Greek goddesses who preside over the arts and sciences—each inspiring a different creative domain like poetry, music, dance, or history.
  • ✨ In everyday creativity: A muse is someone or something that sparks inspiration. It could be a person, a place, a memory, or even a mood that nudges your imagination awake.
  • ✨ In poetic language: To “muse” (verb) means to ponder or reflect deeply—often in a dreamy, thoughtful way. Like sitting beside a flickering candle and letting the shadows tell stories.

Is Raven the Cat a Muse or something more? Well let's discuss it in detail.

 In the flicker of candlelight and the rustle of autumn leaves, Raven appears—not just as a character, but as a whispering guide. But is she a muse?

A muse, by definition, is a source of inspiration. In mythology, she’s a goddess of the arts. In everyday life, she’s the spark that nudges creativity awake. Raven, with her shimmer trails and watchful eyes, fits this role perfectly. She doesn’t just decorate the pages of The Haunted Host Handbook—she animates them.

Whether perched in a party scene or prowling through poetic prompts, Raven invites readers to imagine more. She’s part myth, part memory, part mischievous mentor. And yes, she’s a muse.

So yes, Raven the Cat is absolutely a muse

✨ —part myth, part memory, part mischievous guide. And your illustrated spreads? They’re visual muses, whispering party ideas without saying a word.

✨ If you’re curious to see how Raven inspires haunted happenings and seasonal storytelling, you can find her in The Haunted Host Handbook—available . Let the lanterns lead.

✨ I set up Raven as a free printable for you - Click here - or click tab at the top of the page for other seasonal printable.

🐾 Oh and... just so you know - The Raven you see in my books is named after my very own black cat with yellow eyes that lives with me. Giggle!

May Raven's whisper lead you through the shadows - and into celebration.

Pam

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Why Email Invitations Are Taking Over

 The Rise of Email Invitations: A Modern Twist on Party Planning

Gone are the days of licking envelopes and waiting on snail mail—today’s hosts are embracing a faster, more creative way to invite guests: email invitations. Whether you're planning a haunted bash, a cozy tea party, or a glitter-drenched pumpkin carving day, email invites offer flexibility, flair, and instant delivery.


Why Email Invitations Are Taking Over

  • Instant Delivery: No waiting for postal delays—your invite lands in inboxes within seconds. 
  • RSVP TrackingPlatforms like Paperless Post, Evite, and Smilebox let you monitor responses in real time.
  • CustomizationUse tools like Canva's Email Invitation Creator to design invites that match your theme—complete with fonts, graphics, and even animated elements.
  • Eco-Friendly: No paper waste, no stamps—just digital shimmer.
  • Easy Updates: Need to change the time or add a costume note? You can resend or edit without fuss.

✨ How to Create a Magical Email Invite

  1. Choose a Platform: Canva, Paperless Post, and Smilebox all offer free templates and RSVP features.

  2. Design with Intention: Match your invite to your party’s vibe—whether it’s velvet mischief or pumpkin grins.

  3. Include Essentials:

  • Date & Time
  • Location (or Zoom link)
  • Dress code or theme
  • RSVP instructions
  • A poetic tagline or Raven-approved whisper

Send & Track
: Email directly or share via link or text. Most platforms let you send reminders and follow-ups.

🐾 Raven’s Tip for Realm Hosts

This invitation was conjured from....

The Haunted Host Handbook—available on Amazon.”

 🖤

Now Offering Free Printables to my readers!

 New! Free Printables Coming Soon

Hello Friends,

I’m thrilled to share that a new tab has appeared at the top of this blog: Printables. It opens a shimmering doorway to helpful tools, holiday resources, and party prep guides you can download, print, and use year after year. For Free!

Whether you’re planning a seasonal gathering, organizing classroom magic, or keeping track of your Realm rituals and celebrations— I will be creating printable pages to make it all a little easier. (and a little more enchanted).

Inside the Printables section:

  • Party Prep Tools
  • Seasonal & Holiday Resources
  • Celebration Planning Pages
  • Forgotten Holiday Spotlights
  • Calendar Inserts & Seasonal Timelines
  • Welcome Sign Prints for the door
  • Frame-worthy Poetic Printables
  • Coloring Pages
  • Puzzle Pages

A Dash of Creative Mischief 

 Some printables are inspired by my seasonal books, with sneak-peek coloring pages, themed puzzles, and activity sheets tucked in for readers who love to play inside the Realm.

All files are formatted for black-and-white printing and designed to sparkle with crooked charm, no matter the season.

🕯️ Visit the new Printables tab at the top of this page to explore what’s ready—and keep watch for fresh downloads added soon.

Visit the new Printables tab at the top of this page to begin. 

Blessing to all, Pam

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I’ve Been Crafting something meaningful and I'm ready to share it

For years, I’ve shared seasonal wonder on this blog

—rituals, traditions, recipes, forgotten holidays, and cozy little moments that bring meaning to the calendar. But behind the scenes, something new was stirring. 

I started writing books.

Not just books—seasonal companions, poetic party guides, holiday wall art, and coloring pages that echo the same shimmer I love to share here. They’ve been quietly growing like pumpkins in moonlight.

I’m proud of them. They carry my love for forgotten lore, print-only beauty, storytelling, and celebration. They’re playful and heartfelt. Some are narrated by Raven the Watchcat. Some are traceable. Some have spider secrets. I even tested the waters on creating puzzle books and found I love to create them. lol~

And yes—now they live on Amazon.  

Here’s where you can explore them: 

I've added an Author tab at the top of the blog for those who want easy access to my books.

"I’ll be sharing more soon—book spotlights, seasonal downloads, perhaps a few behind-the-scenes whispers. For now, thank you for being here. You’ve walked beside my journey even when you didn’t know the path had pages."

Let’s keep celebrating the Holidays, together. 

Here's to coloring carefully, dreaming wildly, and following the light wherever it leads.

Pam 🖤

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🕯️ The shimmer doesn’t stop here…
Explore my seasonal library of print-only books, poetic party guides, and curated creative picks.
📚 Visit My Author Page  |  🛍️ Shop My Seasonal Storefront
Curated by the Keeper. Judged by the Cat. 🐾

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